"My mother was horrified at the idea that I wanted to dance professionally because with Jews you just don't dance, you see. That was associated with something else. If you wanted to be in the arts in Jewish life, you could be a musician, but you'd have to be a man. The woman could never take on a professional position in life. The woman could be a schoolteacher until she got married, or a secretary in a very respectable firm until she got married. My mother finally said to me when I was about 15 or 16, 'What's going to happen to you?